The Paradox of Arrival

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The “arrival fallacy”—our persistent belief that happiness lies in reaching the next milestone—blinds us to life’s fundamental truth: that meaning and fulfillment exist not in reaching destinations but in embracing the continuous journey of growth and change.

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Ego Deep Dive

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This post discusses Dr. Richard Beck’s “honeycomb model of the ego,” which consists of six aspects that provide a roadmap for understanding the ego.

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The Lost Art of Doing Nothing

In our perpetually connected digital age, we’ve lost the art of doing nothing – yet this very boredom we desperately avoid is crucial for creativity, self-awareness, and mental clarity.

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Tsundoku

A Japanese term for the practice of acquiring reading materials and letting them pile up without reading them.

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On Obligation

Exploring the concept of obligation as an invitation to create shared experiences and deeper connections rather than a burdensome chore.

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The Beef Wellington Plan

A compelling argument for the power of ultralearning, a learning strategy that emphasizes self-directed, intensive, and strategic skill acquisition.

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